discrimination
POSTED AT 03:30 AM

rhandyreguine

While many minority groups are the target for prejudice... and discrimination... in our society, few persons face this hostility without the support and acceptance of their family as do many gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth.

The world is not divided into sheeps and goats. Not all things are black nor all things white. It is a fundamental of taxonomy that nature rarely deals with discrete categories. Only the human mind invents categories and tries to force facts into separated pigeon-holes. The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects. The sooner we learn this concerning sexual behavior the sooner we shall reach a sound understanding of the realities of sex.

Currently listening to: ignition
Currently feeling: refreshed

IF LOVE is a GAME, THESE are the RULES…
POSTED AT 07:19 PM

rhandyreguine

IF LOVE is a GAME, THESE are the RULES…

1. YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF FIRST…
- Your relationship with yourself is the central template from which all others are formed. Loving yourself is a prerequisite to creating a successful and authentic union with another.

2. PARTNERING IS A CHOICE….
- The choice to be in a relationship is up to you. you have ability to attract your
loved and cause the relationship you desire top happen.

3. CREATING LOVE IS A PROCESS…
- Moving from “I” to “WE” requires a shift in perspective and energy. Being an
authentic couple is an evolution.

4. RELATIONSHIP PROVIDE OPPORUNITIES TO GROW…
- Your relationship will serve as an unofficial “lifeshop” in which you will learn
about your self and how can grow your personal path.

5. COMMUNICATION IS ESSENTIAL…
- The open exchange of thoughts and feelings is the lifeblood of your
relationship…

6. NEGOTIATION WILL BE REQUIRED…
- There will be times when you and your partner must work through impasses. If
you do this consciously and with respect, you will learn to create win-win
outcomes.

7. YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL BE CHALLENGED BY CHANGE….
- Life will present turns in the road. how you maneuver those twists and turns determines the success of your relationship.

8. YOU MUST NURTURE THE RELATIONSHIP FOR IT TO THRIVE…
- Treasure your beloved and your relationship will flourish.

9. RENEWAL IS THE KEY TO LONGEVITY…
- Happily ever means the ability to keep the relationship fresh and vital.

10. YOU WILL FORGET ALL THIS THE MOMENT YOU FALL INLOVE….
- You know all these rules inherently. the challenge is to remember them when you
fall under the enchanting spell of love…..

by: cherie carter-scott Currently listening to: sweet escape
Currently reading: =)
Currently feeling: nothing

my winning speech at college
POSTED AT 10:31 PM

rhandyreguine

                                Who Am I

 

In a perfect world, human beings would co-exist harmoniously, like a rainbow with a multitude of colors, that each layer vibrant & clearly itself, boundless, breathtaking and celestial.

 

Then, a bundle of clouds covered...  I was in a dark room. I heard voices saying, "I don't have a gay cousin", "You are a disgrace in this family!” Then I saw a flying machine written on it the names of my love ones, my mom, my eldest brother and my relatives. At that point in time, I was like a jigsaw puzzle. Pieces of me are scattered, cannot be formed, and cannot be placed together. Then a streak of light approached me, so I took a big step, raised my head and said to my self I am strong. From that day on, obstacles & struggles became my friend. They come and go. But in that period, I pushed myself and built the person standing in front of you today.

My credo in my life is just simple and it goes, “When you believe in yourself, Life is everything you want it to be.” One of the most valuable lessons you can ever learn in life is that all your dreams may not come true. You reach a point in your life when you realize that what you want isn't always what you need. You come to understand yourself for the real feelings you hold inside your heart, and not the feelings that others want you to have. When you begin to learn what life means to you & how you are going to spend your time & energy, you realize that life is only what you believe it to be. If you want happiness, then it is up to you to make yourself happy, & not wait for someone else to do it. In the end, no one else can make you happy; happiness comes from within. It is enjoying life for yourself & appreciating others as they join you in the things you do. You may learn a lot of different lessons in your life, but the most important of all is realizing that life is everything you want it to be; you just have to believe in yourself, believe in others, and enjoy the changes of life as they come your way.

 

Ladies & Gentlemen, life doesn't always end in a happy ending but let this ending open the door for your recognition and always remember that at all times, to shine like a pot of gold found at the end of the rainbow...

Currently listening to: buttons
Currently reading: my compositions
Currently feeling: thankful